Prepare to enter the wild and wooly world of an adult with Aspergers Syndrome, a form of autism characterized by intellignce, quirks, social difficulties and downright strange and oddish behaviours.

People with Aspergers generally are high functioning in everyday life but have great difficulty connecting with others due to the inability to read faces, body language and subtle verbal clues. They also tend to take words literally and have a hard time multi-tasking.

Oversensitivity to touch (clothing has to be soft and often the tags removed), light (do not leave home without the sunglasses), sound (loud noises and noisey places are avoided), taste (many Aspies have quite a limited diet and are frequently very picky eaters) and smells makes the everyday existence more of a challenge.

Fasten your seatbelts and come on in...
To find out more about what Aspergers is..please check out my earliest blog entries

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Dating, Existence and the Meaning of Life

A couple observations regarding my recent adventure into dating. 1) I require an educated woman with intellect. There is no getting around how truly awful it is to be on a date with someone I can't carry a conversation with. 2) I'm surprised and thrilled at how attractive the women are that I've been out with. Well, I guess I'm not counting the one that airbrushed her 10 year old photos and lied about her age and occupation. She was rather tragic. 3) I get highly excited and optimistic on the first date. The second and third dates allow me to see the person in a more realistic light. Good to know!!! 4) it's much harder to get a woman into bed than it is a man, lol!!!! Woman want to build a relationship on a much slower basis. I'm not talking about sex, per se, rather physical intimacy.  5) Finding a woman that has free time and isn't working is difficult. I don't want someone that I can only see once every weekend.
It's definitely interesting, this dating thing. I'm learning more about myself and what works for me as well as figuring out others on a one on one basis. Some people aren't looking or emotionally ready for a relationship. Finding someone emotionally healthy is highly important.
I am having fun. Dating is proving to be enlightening, fun and an exercise in introspection and value fine tuning. I am having a great time!!!

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