Prepare to enter the wild and wooly world of an adult with Aspergers Syndrome, a form of autism characterized by intellignce, quirks, social difficulties and downright strange and oddish behaviours.

People with Aspergers generally are high functioning in everyday life but have great difficulty connecting with others due to the inability to read faces, body language and subtle verbal clues. They also tend to take words literally and have a hard time multi-tasking.

Oversensitivity to touch (clothing has to be soft and often the tags removed), light (do not leave home without the sunglasses), sound (loud noises and noisey places are avoided), taste (many Aspies have quite a limited diet and are frequently very picky eaters) and smells makes the everyday existence more of a challenge.

Fasten your seatbelts and come on in...
To find out more about what Aspergers is..please check out my earliest blog entries

Monday, April 28, 2014

What I Believe

It's a rarity for me to so publicly state what I believe. Most of my life I have been to scared to disagree with people, so I just agreed with them. Enough. My blog. My format. My beliefs. My spiritual beliefs are part of who I am. No negative comments allowed. They will be deleted. Let me speak my peace. Allow me to state who I am, how I think and what I believe.

 I believe that everyone goes to heaven. We are on this Earth to experience and find out what we are made of. We all have the right to leave whenever we want. Choice is always ours. I judge no one. We live and die for only ourselves. Life is a solo experience, for who can really understand or begin to comprehend what another has been through, thinks and feels. I respect everyone else faith or lack of it. There is no one way to heaven. All end up there.
 We are born. We live and complete out current life. We move on to the next phase, afterlife. We hang out there for a short or long time. Then we come back and live this physical world again. It's a cycle, a constantly repeating cycle. I think we put too much attention and value and energy singularly into this current waking life. We fear death, when in reality, there is nothing to fear. It's just another stage, a different arena and we have all been there before. Otherwise..where do we come from? Where are we before we are born?
 Our physical lives are very finite. We all will die. It's okay to be aware of it and talk about it.
 These statements feel very right to me. And I respect others views. Each person believes the things that are right for them.

 I've just recently started thinking that there is a purgatory, a waiting place before heaven. Purgatory is self-imposed. It's for people that don't feel worthy, don't believe they are dead, don't believe in heaven or any God. People choose purgatory until they forgive themselves, until they are ready to move on.
 Earth is our physical experiences with a minor in spirit. Heaven is our spiritual experience and recuperation place.
 That's just what I think, feel and believe. I fully respect each individuals beliefs.


  1. I don't fear death. If I'm honest, I look forward to it. But I think it's just nothingness, dreamless never ending sleep. Sometimes I wish I could believe in something more. I'm glad you have something to believe in. It must be comforting. :-)

  2. Thank you for being honest! I agree that itis something to look forward to. Gosh, I have so rarely found anyone with a similar view:) You are awesome!
    Respect for each persons beliefs are key:) Thank you

  3. I'd never wish our aspiness on anyone. It makes our lives so much harder. But from my (perhaps selfish) perspective, I'm so glad you are the person that you are! I never know anyone who's even a little bit like me. This is awesome! Thanks for being you! :-)